"Any relationship which one takes seriously unwinds into the world. Any relationship of love taken seriously makes one more worldly."
Donna Haraway
Love is a relation which catapults us into the world, "unwinds into the world", love is about happy begining and not happy endings. Love is not there to entrench us or protect us from the evil world, not solace_finally, not end_of_my_wandering_ways. Love has the tendency to go bad if not injected new beginnings. Love gone bad is more negative than hate.
Sustainably fluffy love is trying to move beyond the nacissictic paradigm of self-legitimising possession of someone_who_wants_to_spend_their_life_on/with_us. Love is not the major investment in our little egocentric life (bios) economy, it is an investment into the world.
Love is a firework of the productive powers of the nature/world/zoe. Sustainably fluffy loving subjects are high fuctionaries of Life (zoe), they are mutually empowering, always in the world, always in new becomings.
Love is radically non-profit. Fluffy lovers are not asking the question "what do I want?"/"what makes me happy?", but "what should happen?"/"what would i like to become?". And if nothing spectacularily new should happen, there is no love.
